Running Lean with Patrick McGilvray
So many people I talk to about losing weight or running faster tell me they just can’t seem to make any progress because they feel stuck. This is a really tough place to be because when you feel …
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My name is Patrick McGilvray, and I’m an experienced marathoner, ultra runner, Sports Nutritionist, Master Life Coach, and weight loss coach for runners. I’ve dedicated my life to helping runners just like you properly fuel your body and your mind. So you can get leaner, get stronger, run faster, and run longer than you ever thought possible. This is Running Lean.
Hey there and welcome to episode 237 of Running Lean. My name is Patrick McGilvray, the weight loss coach for runners and today, what to do when you feel stuck. So many people I talk to about losing weight or running faster tell me they just can’t seem to make any progress because they feel stuck, and this is a really tough place to be, because when you feel stuck.
It’s like there’s nothing you can do to get out of it. You feel like nothing’s ever gonna work. You get discouraged. You feel defeated. And what do you do when you feel defeated? You give up, you quit. Why bother eating right? If you’re never going to lose weight, why bother doing the speed work, if I’m never gonna break four hours in the marathon?
But listen, there’s a better way to approach these things. So today, what to do when you feel stuck so that you can get back on track, making progress toward your goals. But first, if you want to get leaner or stronger or run faster or longer, you need to change what you do. Doing the same things will not get you new results. Nothing changes. If nothing changes, right?
The real secret, though, is doing these new things consistently. You know, if you decide you want to get stronger so you go to the gym once a month, that’s not going to get you very far. You need to adopt new behaviors and start doing them consistently. And this is where coaching really helps, trying to stay on track yourself.
It can be difficult, I know, because I’ve tried it like a million times, it never worked for me. You know, I’d start something, I’d do it for a bit, I’d go right back to doing the same old stuff, and I never really made any progress. But once I got a coach, everything changed. I had somebody there guiding me every step of the way, holding me accountable, calling me out when I started slipping back into old behaviors.
Most importantly, I had someone there that was in my corner that was never, ever, ever going to let me quit. So if you’re ready to start doing some new things, and you want to make sure you’re doing them consistently, and you want somebody there to make sure you never quit, let’s do this. Let’s get this done together. We can do it together.
It’s hard to do it on your own, but we can do it together. So just go to my website, runningleancoaching.com, click on Work With Me, and I’ll show exactly how to become the most badass version of yourself, yet cool. Okay, what to do when you feel stuck.
So the reason I want to talk about this today is because so many people that I talk to, they tell me that they feel stuck, that being stuck is why they aren’t making any progress towards their goals. You know, being stuck, I’m stuck, so this is never going to work for me, or they feel stuck, and so they don’t even feel like starting something new, especially, right? It’s a huge problem. And I mean, we’ve all felt like this at some point in our lives, right? We felt stuck.
For me, a time that I remember feeling stuck is when I was trying to lose weight some years ago, and nothing was working for me, and I was running a bunch at the time, I was training for some ultra marathons that year, so I was running a ton, and I was following, you know, some advice from whatever professionals, elite runners, whatever it was, it wasn’t working for me. Whatever I tried didn’t work.
And I was actually gaining weight in the process, right? This is what it felt like to feel stuck. Because I was gaining weight, I was doing all these things, they weren’t working, and I felt stuck. So maybe you’ve felt stuck at some point. Maybe you felt stuck trying to run faster. You know you’re not making any progress. You’re not getting faster.
Let’s say you want to run a sub four marathon, or a sub two half marathon, or whatever. It doesn’t matter. But season after season, you keep trying. You sign up for races, you do the work, and then you can’t get there, right? You just keep coming up short. You know?
You train, and then you show up for this race, and you’re okay, this is going to be the time, and you’re like a 4:04, or something like that, right? It’s disappointing, you know? So you decide that you’re just stuck and you’re just never going to get faster. You have to understand something though, that like these things are going to take time, right?
The reality is that things like losing weight or running faster. They do not happen overnight. It is a long process, and progress can be slow or seem slow. So you have to commit to this process. You have to show up for yourself every single day and commit to the process of change every single day. It’s like a recommitment every day you wake up and you have to go, okay, I’m committed to staying on track again today, no matter what.
And listen, it may take months or years to reach these kinds of goals. Are you okay with that? Because guess what, you have to be, because if you’re not okay with that, you’re going to give up. At some point, you’re going to quit. If you’re not committed to the process of change, you will eventually feel stuck, and you will quit.
You will give in, and you definitely will not reach your goals at that point. So here’s what feeling stuck is, it’s really that it’s a feeling, right? You’re never actually stuck. This is really important. The feeling of being stuck, it’s an emotional state that you’re in.
And if you feel stuck, it’s because you put yourself into that emotional state you got into this emotional state of feeling stuck. That’s all it is. And listen, what I’m about to talk about is going to help you a lot, because once you understand how you got there, the feeling of stuck, stuckness, feeling stuck, once you understand how you got there, it’s then you can see the path out of it. Okay?
So there’s a couple of ways that we get ourselves into this emotional state of feeling stuck, and there’s three that come to mind. The first one is this, you continually let yourself down. So listen, in order to accomplish any big goal, it takes consistency, right you have to continually do the right things over and over and over and over and over again, like sticking with your meal plan, you have to do that every day no matter what, until you reach your goal.
I talk a lot about planning ahead, and this is on a recent episode I did, number 233, the Power of Planning Ahead. Definitely listen to that one if you haven’t checked it out yet. But the the way we do this is you plan ahead, and then so you make a plan for what you’re going to eat.
Let’s say you you do this 24 hours in advance, and then you follow through with that plan tomorrow. That’s it. That’s how you do it. And you rinse and repeat that every single day. This is how you’re going to eventually reach your goal. It’s in these tiny little moments of decision that you make every single day for a long, long time, tiny little moments of decision that add up to big change to big results. Okay, so that’s the way we do it.
But here’s what most people do. They make a plan, and then they don’t follow through with that plan. And so in that situation, what are you doing? You are letting yourself down. And when you do this over and over again, you start to really break down the trust that you’re trying to build in yourself, because you don’t trust yourself anymore.
Like, I can’t trust myself to stick to my plan. Look at me, I failed again. You know, I didn’t do what I said I was going to do again. And that really like, shakes your confidence. You lose tons of confidence when you do that. And then you begin to think, this is never gonna work for me, but you know what that is? Just a lie that you keep telling yourself because you’re full of guilt and shame and remorse over not doing what you said you would do.
You’re not in integrity with yourself, so you have to stop doing this. This is a vicious cycle to be in, and this is what leads to feeling stuck and giving up on yourself. So when you constantly let yourself down, you break confidence and trust in yourself.
You lose confidence, then you feel stuck and you feel like there’s nothing you can do to get out of it, so why bother? And this is what why people quit. And when you’re feeling that way, when you’re feeling defeated, and you know you don’t trust yourself anymore, you lack confidence, you’re definitely not doing the right things. You’re not taking aligned action, those are the things that are going to get you to your goals right.
So if your progress grinds to a halt, and yeah, you’re gonna you’re gonna be stuck, and you actually will feel stuck, and you will actually not be making progress, and most people at that point will quit. All right, so you have to stop letting yourself down, stay in integrity with yourself. Say you’re gonna do something, then do it. Make a plan, follow through with the plan, and show up for yourself every single day.
So that’s number one. Number two is that for a lot of people, progress can be slow, and this is another way that we tell ourselves we’re stuck when we’re really not. So remember what I said earlier about like losing weight or running faster? These things take time. They take a long time.
Most people are not okay with this. They say they’re okay with this. They’re like, oh yeah, I get it, Patrick, I know it’s gonna take a while, but when we actually get into doing the work, so maybe I’m working with somebody, and at the beginning of the process, I say, listen, you know, it’s a little bit different for each person. This is gonna take a while.
I don’t know how long it’s gonna take for you, three months, six months a year. I don’t know. You know, let’s say you have 50 pounds to lose. I don’t know how long that’s going to take. Everybody’s so different, different metabolisms, different lifestyles, different people’s, you know, stick to things differently. You know, different people are more committed than others, whatever, more people, some people are more disciplined than others.
But anyway, I’ll get them on a meal plan, and they might doing they might start doing that pretty regularly, and they’re doing okay, and they might see some results, but then, if they don’t see results fast enough, you know, or immediately, then things aren’t changing. They’re like, I’m stuck, and you know what? I get it.
It’s a tough thing to accept that you got to do all this hard work every single day, but the payoff is like way later. That’s tough for us, especially in the world we live in today. You know, waiting for results. You know, waiting committing to something and knowing that the results are going to be way off in the distance.
That’s a tough sell for a lot of people, because we’re a society that’s been trained to expect things now. You know, Amazon has same day delivery. UberEATS delivers food to your couch in minutes. You know, sometimes every movie or song you’ve ever wanted to watch or listen to, it’s instantly downloadable to your phone wherever you are, right?
So we are not a society that likes to wait for things, you know, like, for me, if I’m buying something online and the shipping is like, oh, this is gonna take, like, a week or 10 days, I’m like, I don’t know if I really want that, right? I mean, it’s ridiculous to think that way.
Funny, recently I bought a couch. I can’t remember last time I bought a couch. I think it was in 2010 was the last time I bought a couch, right? So I think I was due for a new couch. And I love this couch. It’s beautiful. And I went into the store and I saw it, and I sat in it and all that good stuff. And I’m like, Okay, I want this couch. And this was back in May. It was like, May the 11th, is the day that I ordered this couch.
And they’re like, you know, I sign all these papers and pay for it and everything. And they’re like, okay, let’s kind of talk about the shipping. I’m like, cool, you know, I’m available this weekend or whatever. They’re like, oh no, it’s not going to be ready until the middle of July. And I was like, Wait a minute. What now? I had to wait two months for this couch. Actually, I haven’t even got it yet today as I’m recording this.
It’s July 11, so it’s been exactly two months since I ordered this couch. Still not here. I’ll keep you posted on that. I’ll tell you when I get the couch. But I had to really think about this. After I did all this stuff and I signed the papers and I paid for it and everything, I was like, I don’t know if I want this now, because it’s gonna take so long to get here.
And in the grand scheme of things, is two months, really that big of a deal? No, but I’ve been sitting on this jinky old couch forever, and I’m like, I just want this new couch. Like, it’s ridiculous, but this is anyway, this is the world we live in right now. Right? Everything we want it now, right?
So when it comes to things like losing weight, it takes time if you want to run a faster marathon or qualify for Boston or, you know, break two hours and a half, whatever it is, it’s gonna take some time. How much time? Well, that’s the cool part, because we don’t know. That’s the fun part. It’s different for everyone. Nobody really knows.
So this goes back to what I said earlier, about committing to the process of change. So so many people I talk to will say, oh, yeah, I want to lose 30 pounds by, you know, September 1 or whatever. I’m like, okay, let’s just take that date off the table right now, because I we don’t know is how long it’s going to take. Now we can make some progress between now and then, absolutely, but I don’t think, I don’t know if you’re going to get to that goal in that amount of time. Like, who knows?
So we’ve got to come into the process of change, and it doesn’t matter how long it takes, six months a year, three years. Does not matter. What matters is that you’ve chosen to live your life in a healthy way. You’re always improving little by little, day by day. And remember, it’s in these tiny, little moments of progress every single day that add up to really big change. Okay? So we have to understand that progress can be slow. Don’t take that as a sign that you’re stuck, because you’re not stuck. Just accept the fact that progress is slow and commit to the process.
The third way that we can really feel like we’re stuck is that we misunderstand failure. So one of the things I talk a lot about with clients is that we have to change our definition of failure if you want to avoid feeling stuck. So let me ask you this, what do you think of when you think of failure? It’s like the end, right? Like you failed and so you’re done.
That’s what most people think of failure as, or they think of it as, like, I am a failure, like I did not succeed at this. So I am a failure like this is never going to work. I’m always going to fail. And we look at failure as such a huge negative thing. We look at it as like the worst thing, really?
Oh, and there’s a big reason why a lot of people will not even start stuff because they’re afraid of failing, right? That’s crazy, because, listen, failing is just part of the process. It’s part of the process of succeeding, right? So when I was in junior high, it was like ninth grade. I was not the best student. I effed off a bunch. I really didn’t care.
All I cared about was dorking around with my friends and girls like, that’s all I really cared about. And I got, like, mostly C’s, a few D’s, and then in one class at the end of the year, I ended up getting an F in algebra, ninth grade algebra, I got an F, and I was like, oh, my God. I was devastated, and I felt like such a huge loser, so I kind of deemed myself as a failure.
I figured my parents were going to kill me. First of all, I’m never going to graduate from high school. I’m a stupid, dumb loser. And listen, is any of that stuff true? No. But does thinking these terrible things help us at all? No. So how do you think I felt with that kind of a mindset? Well, I felt like I was completely stuck, like I can’t do math. I’m never going to be good at math. I can never get it. Why bother trying?
By the way, happy ending to that story, I took summer school that year. I got my grade up to where I needed to be, so I didn’t have to retake that the next year or whatever. I did graduate from high school. My parents did, in fact, not kill me, which is awesome. And I ended up not being a stupid, dumb loser. I’m actually, I’ve turned out to be pretty awesome and smart.
Okay, so failure is part of the process. It’s never the end. We have to just accept this, right? Failure never means the end, and it never, ever means that you are a failure. It just means you tried something and didn’t work. Okay, so try something else or try that again. Failing is part of the process, and you have to commit to failing if you eventually want to succeed.
Failure is inevitable. It will happen. You will go off your food plan. You’ll have a terrible workout. You won’t PR that marathon that you’ve been training for. Your progress might go in the wrong direction. You might gain weight. You might actually get slower. You know what? It’s all okay. Embrace failure for what it is. It’s part of the learning process. Every success is built upon a big old pile of failures.
All right, so stop seeing failure as the end. Stop seeing failure as I’m stuck. Start seeing it as just another step towards success. That’s it. That’s all it is. So the bottom line here, with all this today, you are never stuck. Being stuck is just an emotional state that you are putting yourself into. And so what do you do when you feel stuck? The way out is to stop letting yourself down.
You’ve got to start building trust and integrity with yourself instead. And when you do that, when you do what you say you’re going to do, you build confidence in yourself. You make progress. And then you you want to keep doing that. Get out of that vicious cycle of letting yourself down and feeling terrible.
Get into the cycle of building that trust and integrity with yourself doing what you said you’re going to do, and building that motivation to keep going. Number two, accept the fact that progress will be slow. That’s okay. Progress can be slow. It doesn’t matter how long it takes. The important thing is that you are committed to the process of change and that you’re in this right? There’s no finish line to being healthy. It’s not a destination we’re trying to get to. It’s how we live our life. Period, okay? And then, number three, you got to reframe failure, stop seeing it as the end, and just start seeing it as just one more thing that you learned that maybe didn’t work on the road to eventually reaching your big goals and eventually being successful. Okay, you got this. Love you all, keep on Running Lean and I will talk to you soon.
This past weekend was the biggest running event of the year here in Cincinnati - Flying Pig Weekend! I did a lot of racing this weekend and let’s just say that things did not all go as …
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My name is Patrick McGilvray, and I’m an experienced marathoner, ultra runner, Sports Nutritionist, Master Life Coach, and weight loss coach for runners. I’ve dedicated my life to helping runners just like you properly fuel your body and your mind. So you can get leaner, get stronger, run faster, and run longer than you ever thought possible. This is Running Lean.
Hey there, and welcome to episode 228 of Running Lean. My name is Patrick McGilvray, The Weight Loss Coach for Runners today, Lessons Learned Flying Pig Weekend. So this past weekend was the biggest running event of the year here in Cincinnati, the Flying Pig Marathon weekend.
And I did a lot of racing this weekend. And we’ll just say that things did not all go as planned. But despite dealing with some very challenging situations, the whole weekend was actually a huge success both for the city for moving thousands and thousands of runners and for me personally.
So today here on the podcast, I’m going to share my experiences in dealing with these challenges. And then the lessons that I learned along the way, all during the Flying Pig weekend.
But first, if you’ve been thinking about improving your health, your fitness, your running, losing weight, and you want a ton of guidance and support to help get you there, consider coaching. The fact is coaching works where other methods fail, because it’s not about one particular diet or one particular exercise routine.
It’s about understanding what works for you as an individual, and then learning how to do it on your own. One thing I tell all my coaching clients is that I want you to not meet with me at some point, you have to be able to do this stuff on your own.
My job is to make sure you get there. What good is making these lifestyle changes if they aren’t sustainable for you? This stuff has to be easy, and effortless for you. And it will be if you stick with it. And my job is to make sure you stick with it.
So if you want to hit the easy button on your weight loss and your running goals, let’s work together to get you there. Just go to my website runningleancoaching.com, click on work with me. And I’ll show you exactly how to become the most badass version of yourself yet. Cool.
Okay, so this past weekend was Flying Pig marathon weekend here in Cincinnati. The most exciting and most fun weekend of the year if you’re a runner. I don’t know about what other people think of this weekend, they might think it’s annoying, because there’s so many people here, but I personally think it’s like better than Christmas. So, so fun.
And listen, if you’re ever interested in coming to Cincinnati to do this race, you should. The Flying Pig was recently voted the number one marathon in the United States. According to USA Today’s 10 Best Reader’s Choice Awards. Very, very huge award to be awarded the number one marathon in the US according to readers, not according to some judges or something like that. These are actual people. So come and do the Flying Pig it’s super, super fun.
You don’t have to do the full marathon. There’s a whole weekend of events. I’m gonna talk about all the stuff that I did this weekend. But Cincinnati is just a great, great city for this kind of thing.
Cincinnati has had a very long history of a very active running community. We used to have this running store here, Bob Roncker’s Running Spot. And he started it back in the 80s and how to run in a group associated with that running store. And the running group became very big.
It was over 1500 people in the running group at one point. And we had to meet at different locations. And we had different pace groups. So we kind of broke it up into four different groups. And I’ve been a part of that group since like 2004, I think. And it’s just been an amazing community here in Cincinnati and Bob Roncker really helped to build that running community here in Cincinnati.
They sold the store, Bob sold the store, and the running group sort of splintered off into several other groups. And now Cincinnati has maybe five pretty big running groups that are in different parts of the community here in different parts of town. And they’re all pretty big.
You know, some of them might have four or 500 people some might have more, some might have a few hundred, but a great, great place for running and the Flying Pig marathon has been going on for a long time and just a super fun event.
They do a really, really good job and it’s a lot of fun. And everything started out Friday with the expo and the expo here is a great Expo super fun. They do it at the convention center. tons of vendors, great deals on gear and shoes.
It was really fun to see all my running friends, you know, people that are all excited about running over the weekend, everybody’s picking up their packets and their T-shirts and complaining about the T-shirts, because that’s what we do. Because we’re runners. Nobody’s ever happy. I kid, I kid. But seriously, it’s good to get these T-shirts, right? But it was so exciting.
It kicks off the whole weekend. And I spent a few hours at the expo just soaking it all up and talking with friends and just had such a fun time. And by the way, I did meet a few of the podcast listeners over the weekend.
And if you are somebody that came up to me and said hi, I just want to say thank you for being a listener. And thanks for coming up and saying hi to me, because it makes me feel good that there’s actual people out there that are listening to this stuff.
I’m sitting here in my office, talking into a microphone looking at some notes. And I’m just like, Is anybody out there listening? And it’s really cool when I see an actual person go, Hey, Patrick, I listen to your podcast and I’m like, Oh my gosh, that’s so great.
One person in particular, I’ll just call them Bailey, who I met in the corrals for the 10k. And we spent a little bit of time just hanging out waiting for the start of the race. And you know, he’s from Memphis, he came up here to do the Flying Pig. They’ve been up here before, him and his wife.
And they love Cincinnati and really had a great time. So Bailey, you’re one of those people who came up and said hi to me. And so I really appreciate that. And it was great to meet you. But the expo was super fun.
After the expo, I went down to run the one mile. So the one mile they do just kind of a fun run. I mean, some people do take it seriously. Because I was doing a whole series of events. So my weekend event was the three-way challenge, which is the one mile on Friday night. And then I did the 10k and the 5k on Saturday. And then Sunday was a half marathon.
So I was doing all the events. I was trying to save myself for Sunday, because I wanted to have a really good half marathon on Sunday. And I took it easy on Friday night. So I did the one mile and didn’t race it, I kind of ran comfortably hard because it’s hard not to it’s like I’m just running a mile. And everybody around you is running kind of fast.
So I held like a steady 8:30 pace or something like that for a mile. Felt good and finished, you know, fine, whatever hung out afterwards with some friends and so many people downtown. And they have a big celebration after each race and a big area with booths and food and drinks and all kinds of stuff.
And also the Reds were playing Friday night and Saturday, I think the Cincinnati FC Game, our soccer team, was playing. So there was a ton going on this weekend, it was just so much fun. So after the one mile I hung out with some friends ended up going home and then you know, took a shower and what not.
And I tried to kind of wind down but I was sort of wound up you know because you just run and then it’s you know, nine o’clock at night or whatever. And you’re just wired, you know, still so I stayed up for a little bit.
And the goal, my goal, my intention for Friday night was to get a really good night’s sleep. So I always make this point of getting a really good night’s sleep two days before the race because the night before the race, typically, you don’t get a very good night’s sleep. Right?
So I’ve done this a few times. And I know that so I’m like, okay, Friday, and I’m just gonna go to bed early, get a good night’s sleep. I did not get to bed really early. It was about 10:30. And I finally you know, went to bed and I’m like, It’s fine. I mean, I gotta get up at like, 4:30 tomorrow, but it’s fine. I like to get eight hours of sleep. I did not get eight hours of sleep. I’m gonna tell you that.
So I go to sleep. And I am awakened from a deep, deep sleep by the fire alarms going off in my building here. And basically the fire alarm saying there’s been a fire detected in your area, you need to evacuate the building immediately. And I was like, Oh my god.
So I jump out of bed throw on my shoes. I’m delirious and I’m going down the stairs and when everybody’s falling down the stairs in the building, there’s probably 200 or so units in this building. So a lot of people were all falling out onto the street. I’m completely delirious because I just fallen asleep and I gotta get up in a few hours here you know?
And this is like at 11:30, I’ve only been asleep for like an hour. I was out hard and so we had to stand outside and wait for the fire department to come to clear the building to make sure there wasn’t an actual fire or something, you know, horrible going on. There was no fire. I don’t know why the fire alarms went off. False alarm I guess.
So I finally went back upstairs now I’m wide awake. It’s midnight, and I ended up you know, not getting to sleep till about 12:30 or so knowing that I had to get up in like four hours. So Friday night’s sleep plan, thwarted, completely thwarted, like I’m just telling you that I felt so terrible Saturday morning when I got up.
So I get up, and I’m going to run the 10k and the 5k, I wanted to get a good parking spot, and there’s a parking garage right near the start and finish. And you gotta get there early to make sure you get a good spot, whatever. So I get down there early, got a great spot.
And I’m waiting around to start this 10k. And I am just delirious, I can’t think straight. I was supposed to meet some friends down there, can’t find them. And I’m just like, whatever, I am just going to do my best here today.
And that 10k was rough, kind of a warm weekend, you know, so Sunday was pretty warm. But it was kind of warm in the morning. And so I just decided, you know, this is just to get it done situation, I gotta run a 5k later, I gotta run a half tomorrow. So let’s just enjoy this 10k and not run too hard, which I didn’t, and struggled a little bit about halfway till about halfway through. And then I was fine. And I just was like, that’s fine.
I didn’t run fast. It was like an hour, a little over an hour, 1:04 something like that. So I just finished the 10k got done with that, you know, went to my car, changed my clothes. And I had to change clothes because I was smart, you know, I thought about that. I got dry clothes on because I was soaking wet, dry socks, it was amazing.
So I get ready standing in the crowds for the 5k getting ready to run that thing that the 10k started at 7am. The 5k was supposed to start at 9:00. So 8:30 or so I’m like in the corral, standing around waiting for the 5k to start. Within a few minutes before the start time people just start walking away. And we’re looking around like what’s going on?
Well, apparently, there’s a big storm coming. And so they told everybody to go take shelter, and that they’re going to delay the start of the race by an hour. And we were like, okay, they didn’t announce that. They just had a couple of people walking around. Well, I don’t know how many people are standing in line for that 5k,10,000 or something like that, it’s a huge, huge amount of people.
So they just went around and like kind of told everybody there’s a big PA system. I don’t know why they didn’t use that to tell everybody. Maybe they had to turn it off because there was lightning around. I don’t know, it was very confusing.
So anyway, we went to the parking garage, I went to my car, hung out with some friends. And I’m thinking I’m looking at the radar. And I’m thinking there’s no way this thing is going to start in an hour because the storm is going to be on top of us in an hour, which it was.
And at 10am The Flying Pig sent a text everybody’s saying that the race is going to be delayed until noon. Okay, so from 9am start time till noon is three hours later. I was like, oh my god, what is happening here?
So I went to my car, I watched some TV, I have a Tesla. So it’s got the Hulu in there, you know, Netflix and stuff like that. So I watched a little Hulu, that was nice. But I gotta tell you, I was so tired. So exhausted. So I just kind of leaned my seat back and I took like a 20 minute nap. That was amazing, by the way.
But still, it’s like, you know, now it’s only 11. Like, we still got another hour wait. And I was just like starting to get all stiff, you know, because you run a 10k. And then you sit around for three hours, you’re gonna get all stiff, right? Oh boy.
And the skies did open up. And it was crazy though the amount of rain that was on top of us and the lightning, which you would hear it and see it at the same time. So you know, it’s really, really close. It’s like right on top of you. Very good for the Flying Pig to delay the start of that race because it would have been very, very dangerous out there.
I’m just, I’m really glad they did that. I didn’t like sitting around, but it makes makes a lot of sense. All right. So that storm was moving very slowly. And so their timing of starting it at noon was a good idea. So we ended up starting the 5k at noon. And I was stiff by that point, you know, and that 5k was rough at the beginning.
The first mile was really challenging because there are so many people and I love people that run 5K’s but there’s a lot of people that walk and a lot of people that have strollers and stuff and they don’t line up quite properly.
So a lot of people were lined up with strollers and walking up at the front, which made it very difficult. My first mile was very, very slow. It’s like a 10:30 and I was like oh my god, this is ridiculous. My second two are like 9:45 and 9:00’s what I was shooting for, you know, just hard to get there with that many people, but I wasn’t too worried about I was like you know what? Who cares? Like I’m so exhausted right now and stiff.
So I just tried to have fun with it and it was fun. It really was. It’s a fun little course you go through this huge transit tunnel like under the city. And so it was fine. But after the 5k, or towards the end of the 5k, I started developing this blister on the side of my big toe. And it was really hurting bad like it was killing me by the end of the race. So I finished that.
Finally, I’m done with that. I get home, take a shower, and had to deal with this blister. So I get these calluses on the side of my big toe. If you’re somebody that’s grossed out by this kind of stuff. Don’t listen to this part. But I’m just going to tell you that if you’re a runner, you probably already get this.
So no big deal, I get these calluses on the side of my big toes. And when they get kind of big, I file them down so they don’t do what they did, which is they’ll rub against your shoe. And then it’ll kind of develop a blister underneath the callus. So you get this big callus and then a blister underneath, it is not a good situation. It’s very, very painful.
I’ve dealt with these during Ultras before, never during like a 10k or a 5k or something like that. And I don’t know why it happened. Pretty weird. But anyway, I was just like, well, I got to deal with this. So get home. I tried to file that thing down, which I did and helped it out a little bit.
But it was super painful, like walking was painful. And I was like, I don’t even know how I’m gonna run tomorrow. I wasn’t, you know, I was tired. I knew I was going to be exhausted and all that. But now I’m concerned about this blister. Oh my gosh, whatever.
The rest of the day on Saturday was kind of busy, I had stuff to do. And I had lost three hours of my day because of this rain delay, you know. And I finally didn’t get to bed till like 11 o’clock on Saturday night, right, I gotta get up at four o’clock to run this thing on Sunday.
And I knew I wasn’t gonna get a good night’s sleep on Saturday night, which I didn’t get a really good night’s sleep. So, I wake up at 4am on Sunday, make some coffee. And then you get my butt down there again, I got that same parking spot, which I felt really good about because I got there nice and early.
And so my original goal for the half was somewhere between like a 2:00 a 2:10. That’s kind of what I was shooting for. Maybe though, I did have a back pocket goal. That’s a goal that I don’t tell anyone about. And so my back pocket goal was a sub-two. And I’ve done a lot of sub-two halves. It’s just been a minute.
And I was thinking I might be able to do this. But it all depends on how the weekend went. And it’s pretty safe to say that the weekend did not go according to plan. Things kind of went awry, which is fine. So that 2:10, I was like I don’t know if this is going to be even doable.
So the lack of sleep, the blister or the running I did I made a decision Saturday night. Before going to bed. I was like you know what, tomorrow, I am just going to run the half with my girlfriend Jill.
Jill was an official pacer for the Flying Pig this year. And she’s done this before. She’s like a pro at it. So she was pacing the 2:20 half group. And I was like that’s cool I can do 2:20. When you’re a pacer though you have to hold a sign on the stick that says the pace that you’re going to be running and there are some balloons on there. It’s a little bit heavy, you know. So it’s nice to have a couple of people.
So her and her good friend were there to pace the 2:20 group. And so I was like, you know what, I’m just going to run with you guys today. I’m tired. You know this, my foot is an issue right now I just need to get this thing done. And we’ll just have fun.
2:20 seemed very doable. And Jill and I, we can both run faster than that. So as an official pacer, you have to or you’re supposed to pace a group that’s around 20 minutes slower than your actual pace. So this is perfect for both of us because we can both run about a 2 hour half at this point.
And let me tell you something about Jill. Jill is the Assistant Director of the Air Force marathon so she worked the Flying Pig Expo all day Friday. Then she drove to Indianapolis, which is two hours away.
She drove there Friday night because she was running that Indi mini half marathon in Indianapolis Saturday morning. And that’s the one where you get to run on the Indy 500 track. Super cool event.
So she runs a 2:02 half marathon on Saturday. Finishes that, drives back to Cincinnati another two hours in the car. And then she got up on Sunday morning to pace the pig half group and she had a huge smile on her face the whole time. So she’s kind of a badass.
So 6:30am is the start time for the Flying Pig and at 6:30am it was like 65 degrees and 93% humidity. It was brutal and it was supposed to get up to 88, and I’m telling you at at 93% humidity is is very challenging conditions to be running a marathon or half marathon.
So we start running, 6:30 gun goes off, great. We’re out there, we’re having fun. We’re running. And Jill’s pacing partner was dealing with some cramps or something early on, and we lost her around mile three, like she just kind of started to fall back and she couldn’t keep up. So Jill was really glad that I decided to run with her. So she didn’t have to do this alone, because it’s a lot of pressure to do that by herself.
You know, I helped her carry the little stick and stuff like that a little bit. And you know what, we had so much fun. We were laughing, we were talking to everyone around us, we’re lifting people up.
We are, you know, screaming at people in a good way where there’s lots of first timers out there. And some people were freaking out a little bit because it was hot, and it was humid. And people were, you know, getting a little bit concerned, which you know, you should be.
There was a couple of water stations that ran out of water early on. So people were standing in line waiting for a cup of water, because they were they were filling them as fast as they could, but they just couldn’t keep up with the demands.
There’s so many people that needed water early. But I have to say that, despite all that we were out there encouraging people. And you know, Jill and I have both done this race many times. So we were both just having so much fun. And really, this is the most fun I’ve ever had during a race.
I cannot tell you the last time I had this much fun running a race, especially the Flying Pig. It’s a tough race. It’s not easy. The first eight miles are kind of hilly and but once you get up there, that’s a lot of downhill finish, which is nice. And Jill’s pacing was spot on. She is a pro by the way. We finished it at 19:54, within six seconds. Are you kidding me? It was amazing.
And she was very appreciative that I hung with her for the duration since her partner wasn’t able to keep up. So everything worked out beautifully there. And once we finished, we crossed the finish line. And we’re in the post race celebration area, the sun came out. It was kind of cloudy in the morning, which was good, it helped keep the heat down, but the sun came out. And it got really hot really fast, like around 80 degrees.
So for the people that were running the full marathon, they were only about halfway done. You know, and most of our friends who did the full really struggled with the last half of that race. We waited around for a lot of people at the end.
And people were kind of miserable, but everybody was in good spirits. They were like, you know what? We ran. We did our best the conditions out there. So it was really hard. But we did our best and that’s all you can do in these situations. Right?
Okay, so that was the half marathon day and then post race we met up with some friends we talked about our races we went out and got some pizza and ice cream. Yes, I made a very intentional decision a couple of weeks before the event to eat some pizza and ice cream after this weekend’s running because I was like I do this like twice a year why not celebrate this event and we’ll go to my favorite pizza place here in Cincinnati, Dewey’s love it, so good.
And then we’re gonna get some Jenni’s ice cream. Jenni’s is a local ice cream vendor around here. Amazing, crazy flavors. So race day, I got some pizza. Normally, I eat a lot of pizza, I couldn’t really eat much. And just was like, I had a few pieces and I was done.
And then the same thing with the ice cream. Normally I get a pint of ice cream. I eat the pint of ice cream, the whole thing. And I was like, I had like half of it and I was fine. I didn’t really need any more. You know, my, my food binging has really just, I don’t really do that anymore.
Because I eat some pizza or eat some ice cream and it’s okay, you know, it feels pretty good. And it’s tasty. But I’m like, you know, I’m done. I don’t need a whole lot of that. So that was good. I felt good about that. I felt in integrity with myself by not going completely nuts on pizza and ice cream. Because that used to be my jam.
Okay, so a few lessons learned. Number one, you’ve got to plan ahead, but you’ve got to go with the flow. You plan ahead and then you got to go with the flow. I trained hard to season I was ready for a pretty decent race on Sunday. But I really had to listen to my body and go with the flow.
I could have really pushed it on Saturday and really pushed it on Sunday, but I think I’ve made the right decisions you know, considering blister and by the way, the blister did not hurt me during the half marathon at all. Like it didn’t bother me at all. 100% fine.
It did hurt for a couple days afterwards. But now it’s almost completely healed, which is good. But it didn’t bother me. I was like wow, that’s amazing. But I listened to my body, I was super exhausted, I had the blister, whatever. But I did my best.
The important thing is that I feel good about my decisions, I feel good about the way I raced these different races, considering what was going on the exhaustion, and the lack of sleep, and the delirium and all these other things, right. So I feel good about my decisions, I’m in integrity with myself with my decisions, especially on Sunday.
The next lesson I learned is that, you know, you shouldn’t put timelines on your goals. And this may sound a little counterintuitive, because if people say, Oh, you need a goal, it has to be you have to have a time to complete this goal.
But when you put a timeline on your goal, especially like running goal, and you don’t hit it on that date, it can be incredibly frustrating, disappointing, you know, instead, set a goal, do the work you need to do each day to move toward that goal. And then eventually, you will get there.
I talk to my weight loss coaching clients about this all the time. Like don’t put a timeline on your weight loss goal. Instead, focus on doing the work each day to get there, and you will eventually get there. Is it going to take three months or six months or a year, who cares? It doesn’t matter.
What’s important is like you’re changing in the process, you’re becoming a different person in the process. And eventually you will get there if you stay focused. So I’ve got a goal of doing this sub-two half again, like I said, I’ve done it before, but it’s been a minute, but I’m gonna try again this fall, and I’m not disappointed about my weekend.
I’m happy that I did what I did this weekend. I’m not disappointed. I didn’t hit that goal on this particular day. You know, this was not the weekend to go for that goal. Clearly, right? The Universe sent me lots of signs, telling me this is not the weekend for that.
And the biggest lesson I learned is that, you know, running is fun. And running can be so much fun. We had so much fun running this hometown marathon, half-marathon, 5k, 10k, one mile, whatever. And especially on Sunday, it just felt light and easy. You know, we didn’t take ourselves too seriously.
The next race that you do, I want to encourage you to focus on having fun. Do what you need to do to make it fun. Leave the headphones at home, talk to people, listen to people, get encouraged by the crowd, encourage other people, crack some jokes. Have fun out there, talk to people from out of town.
Ask people where they’re from. Just enjoy it. You know, the training is the hard part. We train from January till May. And we run in all kinds of terrible weather. It’s months of hard work. The race is the celebration, the race is the victory lap. So enjoy it. Have fun with it. But I really have this new love of running. And that half marathon on Sunday really got me there. It was amazing. Super, super fun. That’s my favorite lesson this weekend, is that running can be amazingly fun.
Okay, so that’s my recap of the weekend. Those are lessons I learned. Come to Cincinnati do the Flying Pig next year. It’s going to be amazing. It always is. It’s a super fun weekend. And if you do come out here, look for me and say hi. Okay, that’s all I got for you today. Love you all, keep on Running Lean, and I’ll talk to you soon.
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Hey there, and welcome to episode 226 of Running Lean. My name is Patrick McGilvray, The Weight Loss Coach for Runners. And today, what’s the best pacing strategy? So we are in the middle of the spring racing season, at least we are here in the US.
And a lot of runners ask me questions about pacing for their upcoming race, should they start slow and try to finish fast? Should you start fast and try to make up for some time when you eventually slow down at the end of a race? Should you focus on your heart rate or cadence, your current pace or your average pace? Lots and lots of questions around pacing.
And believe it or not, there is one pacing strategy that has been proven time and again to be the most effective for most runners. So today, I’m going to answer the question of what’s the best pacing strategy so that you can go out there and crush your spring race this year.
But first, if you’re listening to this podcast, that means that your health, your fitness, it’s important to you, you want to feel better, you want to look better, you want to get stronger, you want to improve your running. And I want to tell you that all of that is possible for you. And I also want you to know that I can help you get there.
You know, I’m talking to you on the podcast and you’re listening to this and you’re taking in a lot of this information. I listen to a lot of podcasts, I listen to a lot of books. I hear from a lot of experts and a lot of different topics. I know a lot of stuff about a lot of stuff.
But when it comes to the practical application of all that knowledge, nothing has been more helpful to me than having a coach show me what to do to guide me to mentor me to help me stay on track. I’ve had a bunch of awesome coaches in my life. And I’m a different person today because I’ve had these coaches.
And because I’ve had such an amazing experience with these coaches, it inspired me to want to be a coach. That’s why I do what I do. So I know how powerful coaching can be because I’ve experienced it firsthand.
So for you, if you’re listening to the podcast, you know, keep listening and learning. But if you want help applying this, consider working with a coach. Find someone that can show you the way, that can help you apply all this knowledge, somebody that can help you learn what works for you. That’s very important.
You need somebody that can hold you accountable. And it can’t be somebody that’s close to you can’t be your your spouse or your best friend, that typically doesn’t work. You need somebody to hold you accountable and help you to stay on track and stick to the plan so that you can get the results that you want faster and more effectively than you could do on your own.
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Okay, so it is spring season spring racing season. And we are in the midst of getting ready for a lot of spring races. Some people have already run, you know, maybe Boston or something like that. So just understand that there’s lots of races happening this time of the year. Typically here in the US, it’s spring and the fall. That’s our racing season.
But you know, there’s lots of stuff that happens in the summer and in the winter as well. But for now, let’s let’s focus on kind of some of the spring races. So if you’re running a 5k, 10k, half-marathon, marathon, and you are considering some sort of a pacing strategy, or you don’t know really what your pacing strategy should be. I’m gonna hope to answer that question for you today and give you a really solid pacing strategy that works for pretty much all runners.
It’s proven to be kind of the most effective pacing strategy. But one thing I want to start out with is just saying that you have to practice pacing in your training, okay, I can’t stress this enough.
You cannot show up on race day and expect for some miracle to happen. Like you can’t do all your training at a 10 minute pace and then just decide that you’re going to run a nine minute pace for your half marathon and be able to do that effectively. You have to practice your pacing in your training. Just stick to the script, okay.
And especially in your in your training, it’s important that you don’t get sucked into, you know, training at somebody else’s pace. You don’t want to get sucked into racing at somebody else’s pace, either. I’ve done that before, I’ve gotten excited at the beginning of a race.
And you know that, oh, I’m gonna run with my friend over here. And this person’s a little faster than me, and I just, I couldn’t hold on, you know, I didn’t stick to the script, I had a plan, I knew what I was going to do, this person was running faster than me. And I was trying my best to hold on.
But it really messed me up, because I wasn’t able to have a good race, because I started way too fast and was not able to handle that, because I wasn’t training that way. But this is important in your training as well, that you are running your paces that you are sticking to your plan so that you are fully prepared to run your, you know, hopefully predicted pace during your race.
But we get caught up in this as well like, especially if you run with a group of people or you want run with friends. And they might be faster than you or slower than you and you kind of get caught up in running with doing all your runs with them. But it’s not really at a pace that that you want to be running at. So you have to sort of do your own thing.
And a good example of this is that for me, I’ve slowed down this past year. Last year, I did a lot of slow running, I was training for this 12 hour event. And the whole point of that was just to, you know, be on my feet for 12 hours running, and be able to finish that and feel good at the end.
So I did a ton of slow running. And I just kind of took a break from the speed work and really wasn’t trying to race anything all last year. So my pace slowed down quite a bit. And then when I started running with my running group in January to start training for this half marathon I’m doing here next weekend, I couldn’t run the same speed as them, I couldn’t keep up with them.
And so it was fine. I was like you guys go ahead, I’m just gonna like hang back here. I actually started, I usually don’t run with headphones on with the training group because I like to talk to people. But I started bringing my headphones and started listening to podcasts and stuff because I was kind of running it at a pace that wasn’t really in line with the one of the pace groups in our in our room group.
So I was doing a lot of training by myself. But that was okay, I wanted to do that. That was what I needed to do, I was sticking to my plan. Okay, so I want you to do the same thing. So make sure that you are sticking to your plan in your training.
And then when you show up on race day, you have to stick to your plan, don’t get caught up in the excitement of the race, don’t get caught up, you know, just trying to keep up with somebody else.
And if you’re going to run with someone, you guys have to have a conversation ahead of time about what the plan is, you know, you might say like you, okay, I’m going to help you, I’m going to pace you for this because it’s your first half marathon, and I’ve done a dozen of them.
So I’m going to pace you, this is the pace we’re going to stay at, I’m going to stay with you no matter what, like that’s a conversation that you would have if you were you know, pacing someone, but if you’re just friends and you’re running, you might have to say, Listen, I’m feeling pretty good. Today, I’m going to you know, try to, you know, maintain this kind of pace. And if I leave you in the dust, you know, just don’t take it personally, you know, you got to have that conversation.
So everybody’s on board, and there’s no hurt feelings or anything like that. I think we put our feelings above, like what we really want for ourselves, you know, I don’t want to hurt their feelings. So I’m gonna try to stay with them. Like, don’t do that. If that’s not in your plan.
Okay, so probably the most important thing to start talking about here is that just stick to the script, do your training, make sure you’re following your your pacing plan, practice it in your training, and then on race day, make sure that you are following the plan that you have been practicing.
Remember nothing new on race day, right. Another thing I wanted to kind of touch on really quickly is this idea of a central governor. So there’s this concept called the Central Governor Model. And it’s not something that has been like 100% proven but it is very, there’s very compelling evidence that this actually is is a thing.
Okay, so the Central Governor Model says that your brain will monitor the body through your brain monitors to the body to make sure that your body doesn’t get too far from homeostasis. Homeostasis is like everything in balance, okay.
In essence, what we’re saying here is that the body is I’m sorry, the brain is the body’s control room. Okay? And it is like a safety mechanism and it’s keeping your body from dying. Alright, so when you’re out there running and you’re pushing yourself, and you’re trying to you know, PR your marathon or half marathon, your brain is going to tell you at some point this is dangerous, you’re going to die, you might feel like you’re going to die.
But a lot of times it is just your brain telling you that your body can continue. And they’ve done all kinds of studies where they’ve put people on treadmills or on on bikes, and they’ve just had them go until they couldn’t go any longer. And the people that could go longer, the way they structured the studies, they would, they would have people run on a treadmill or on a bike, and they would have them go as long as they could, until they completely fatigued, they kept cranking up the intensity.
And then they got to a point where they couldn’t go on any longer. And they repeated this over and over again. So they can only go to a certain distance before they crapped out, you know. But the interesting thing is, when they told them, oh, the person before you was able to go, you know, 28 minutes, well, then they were able to push past that.
And then they said, okay, with the person before he was able to go 33 minutes, and then they were able to push past that. So it’s interesting, because it isn’t the body that’s giving out, it’s the brain that’s telling them that they need to quit.
But if the brain is like, oh, I can go another three minutes, they’ll do it. It’s very interesting, right? So just understand that this has been a concept of Central Governor Model has been around or proposed by a physiologist, guy named Avi Hill back in 1924.
And he had this theory that the heart was protected by some sort of Governor so that you wouldn’t die from really intense activity, exercise. And then Tim Noakes has talked about this a lot. And he’s a modern day professor. And basically, he’s saying that, you know, the subconscious brain, there’s something in the subconscious brain, that sets the exercise intensity, that determines like how hard you are able to push, and just understand that, you know, the brain is going to be telling you that you want to stop, but chances are, you can continue going.
So just understand that that is a real thing. That Central Governor Model is probably something that we all have to deal with, when we’re pushing hard, especially in the late stages of a race. So if you’re trying to PR and you know that you’re getting close, chances are that you can keep going.
But if you’re like, if it looks like it’s not going to happen, it’s easier to give up, right? Because your brain is telling you one thing versus another, it’s telling you this is possible for you, you can do this, you only got you know, you just gotta like push it for the next five minutes, you can do it.
But if it’s like, oh, you’re probably not going to PR, you know, you’re just the the math isn’t going to work out, you’re not going to be able to do it, you might give up, you know what I mean? So it’s very interesting. So just keep that in mind.
I’m just putting this out there because I think it’s very fascinating the way that your subconscious mind can control what’s going on with your body. Okay, so and then there are also some different tools for pacing. So there’s assessment tools to kind of keep track of your pacing.
So, you know, heart rate monitor is one of them, your GPS, watch the time. And then there’s the RPE or rate of perceived exertion scale. So they these all have, you know, sort of pros and cons. You know, with your heart rate monitor, if you’re somebody that’s used to doing heart rate training, and you know that for you, keeping your heart rate at like a 140 is where you need to be, and that’s going to give you the best results, then then do that, again, you have to train with this stuff, right?
If you’re doing the GPS that might give you real time pace, that’s awesome. Sometimes the real time pace can be a little misleading because it bounces around a lot, you know, look down on my watch, you know, you have those different fields, you’ve got like the current pace, that’s your real time pace right now. And then you’ve got your average pace.
Some people like that current pace, because it’ll say, hey, I’m running an eight minute mile. But then you look down and your your nothing has changed. And it’ll say like 8:30, it’ll say 9:00, it’ll say 7:30. You’re like, what is going on here? Well, it’s not perfect. Okay, so GPS is not going to be perfect.
And then if you use your average, that tends to be a little bit better. But again, it’s not going to be perfect GPS, especially when you’re running a race in a urban area with a lot of buildings and stuff like that the GPS can be wildly off. People tell me all the time, oh, you know, this course was long, my watch thought it was, you know, 26.8 miles?
And I’m like, no, they measure the courses, they get that part, right, they get that part. They’ve done extensive measuring of courses to make sure that they are correct. So chances are, they’re not going to be half a mile or more off. You know, they might be a few feet off or something like that, but probably not even that. So just understand that GPS can be a little bit misleading and it’s hard to rely on that as a pacing tool, just so you know.
A better strategy is using time I think that If you’re trying to, you know PR a certain race, you know that if you’re wanting to run a four hour marathon, then you know that you have to cross the finish line, under four hours, like it’s just a matter of time, it doesn’t matter what your heart rate says, doesn’t matter what the GPS says just go by the time.
And at race expos, a lot of times, you can grab a pacing band. And so it is actually a band that you wear around your wrist. And it is a chart of what time you need to be at each mile marker.
Okay, so for me it let’s say, let’s just keep the math simple. Let’s say you want to run a 10 minute mile, that means your first mile, you need to hit that mile marker in 10 minutes or less, the next 20 minutes, 30 minutes, and so on. But once you get into like 16 miles or whatever doing the math can be kind of hard if you’re like trying to hit a 9:30 or something like that, right?
It’s like, oh, my god, I can’t do that kind of math. So having that band on your wrist is so awesome, because all you have to do is look down and go. Okay, my time is this, this is where I should be, I’m a minute faster than I need to be, perfect. I’m just gonna keep doing what I’m doing. So very, very effective pacings tool to use, it’s an assessment tool, you know. So go by time over pace, I think this is going to be very helpful for most people.
And then there’s the RPE scale. So that’s your rate of perceived exertion, just understand that you have to understand how it feels for you to run at 9 minute pace or a 10 minute pace or whatever. Like you have to be practicing this and you have to have gotten in touch with your own rate of perceived exertion so that you understand what that feels like for you.
When you get good at this though, this is awesome. Because you just know, Oh, this feels like a six on the RPE scale, this feels like a seven. Oh, maybe I need to slow down I’m getting into the eights. Or you can say this is a four, I can write this pace all day. So when you get good at that this is really an awesome strategy to use for pacing.
So most people make mistakes when they are running a race and some of the most common ones, especially for the longer distance races. You know, if you’re if you run a 5k, you’re going to be running pretty hard from the gun, you’re just going to run hard from the beginning.
And you’re going to, you know, put it all out there and you can kind of maintain a pretty high intensity for the duration of that. But then when we started getting into the longer distances, 10 K’s half marathons, marathons. One of the most common mistakes people make around pacing is just starting off too fast.
Probably the most common pacing mistake is getting caught up in the excitement of the of the event. I mean, it is super exciting. You’re down with thousands of people that got the music blasting or shooting off fireworks or whatever they’re playing, you know, Bruce Springsteen’s Born to Run as you cross the start line. It’s amazing, right? Probably the most overplayed song at the start of a marathon by the way, but just a little side note there.
So the most common mistake is going to be starting off too fast. And so one thing you want to do is not do this, right? Don’t try to keep up with people around you. Another common pacing mistake is running someone else’s pace, we talked about that already.
Don’t run a pace that somebody else has set, you have to set your own pace, you have to have been practicing this. And then the third common mistake that people make is running at varying intensities, you really don’t want to do this.
Most runners try to maintain the same speed. So they’re trying to maintain a certain pace, even when they’re running uphill. So what they will do is they will run hard and fast uphill, and then they will slow down a little bit on the downhills. And this is actually not a very efficient way of running. You don’t want to be varying your intensities. It’s not as efficient as just a smooth and steady approach. Okay.
And that really is the best racing or pacing strategy for a race is a smooth and steady approach. You don’t want to be bouncing all over the place. You don’t want to be all erratic with your pacing. You want to get into a pace pretty quickly. You know, for some races, you want a little bit of a warmup period and honestly the start of most races is going to give you that opportunity. If you’re running a crowded race, then the start is usually going to be pretty slow so you may be 30 seconds to a minute slower for your first mile or two. Whatever, that is completely fine.
And to do that, get into your, your effort level that you want to maintain for the duration of that race, a consistent effort level is the most effective pacing strategy. Okay? Please understand that that is different from your pace or your time. Now we want to pay attention to that stuff, especially the time if you’re trying to get you know a PR.
But the most effective pacing strategy is going to be to maintain a consistent effort throughout the duration of your race, that means that there will be times when you’re running uphill, and you might have to slow down a little bit or you’re running downhill, and you might be able to speed up a little bit, try to maintain that consistent effort level, I have used this pacing strategy to hit all my PRs, my 5k 10k, half marathon, a marathon is all all of those.
I applied this strategy right here consistent effort throughout the majority of the race, with a strong finish at the end. That’s it, that’s the that’s the most effective pacing strategy right there.
Think about it like this. If you have two cars, and they’re both driving the same distance, one’s driving steadily at 65 miles an hour. And the other one is constantly braking and accelerating, braking and accelerating, they’re going 40, they’re going at, both cars are going to arrive at the finish in the exact same time. One hour, let’s say, okay, but which one was more efficient, you know, which one had more gas in the tank at the end, you know, it’s going to be the one that just maintain a steady, smooth pace the whole time.
So this is a really good analogy for what your pacing strategy should look like. Okay, this does not mean that you don’t push hard in some areas of a race, it does not mean that you don’t finish strong, that is very important. You always want to have a race where you finish it strong.
And this is, again, something you have to practice in your training, you cannot just show up on race day and think that all this stuff is going to come together for you have to be practicing this stuff. Now, you’re not going to practice a whole half marathon like this, but you might do a nine mile or you know, or 10 miles at your race pace with a strong finish just to see like, where are you from a fitness standpoint, is this doable for you? Are you able to do 9 or 10 miles at race pace? And if you are, then your half marathon is going to be definitely doable. Okay.
So that would be my suggestion for the most effective about pacing strategy. And just keep in mind that, you know, we’ve got things to consider, we’ve got the excitement of the race, you gotta like make sure you’re calming yourself down, and you’re not getting caught up in the excitement or running somebody else’s race. We’ve got pacing versus time versus heart rate, all those things you have to consider.
I suggest if you can for longer races to get that pace band, so that you know where you’re supposed to be at each mile. And then settle into your your pace early or settle into your effort level that matches the pace that you want to that you want to hit early. And then maintain that just hold that smooth and steady pace for as long as you can.
Yeah, you might be able to run faster on some down hills, you might run a little bit slower on some of the uphill, it’s perfectly fine to do that. That’s going to give you the most energy efficient race, you got to conserve energy for the end. That’s why we like that strong finish because you have to conserve energy for the end. And if you’re running out of gas throughout the middle of the race, that end of that race is going to be terrible for you. I’ve done that so many times.
So I know exactly what it feels like where you get to mile you know 20 of the marathon, you’re like I am just done like this is like so hard because you went out too fast your effort level was all over the place. And you’ve just been wasting gas the whole time essentially. Okay.
So instead of going for some crazy erratic thing or starting slow or starting fast or anything like that, just try for smooth and steady for the majority. Okay, push it a little bit here and there but really smooth and steady and then aim for that strong finish at the end. Cool. And I hope you have an amazing race this season. I’ll let you know how mine goes here in a couple of weeks. That’s all I got for you today. Love you all, keep on Running Lean and I will talk to you soon.
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My name is Patrick McGilvray, and I’m an experienced marathoner, ultra runner, Sports Nutritionist, Master Life Coach, and weight loss coach for runners. I’ve dedicated my life to helping runners just like you properly fuel your body and your mind. So you can get leaner, get stronger, run faster, and run longer than you ever thought possible. This is Running Lean.
Hey there, and welcome to episode 225 of Running Lean. My name is Patrick McGilvray, The Weight Loss Coach for Runners and today, Pushing Past Your Comfort Zone.
So one of the most powerful things you can do to improve your health and fitness is to regularly push past your comfort zone. Now, this might seem obvious to you and pretty basic. But it’s an area where most people really struggle, the idea of getting uncomfortable is easy to understand.
Most people are like, sure, Patrick, I’m totally willing to get uncomfortable. But when they come face to face with their own discomfort, all those good intentions kind of go out the window, most people end up running back to the safety and security of their well-constructed comfort zones.
So today here on the podcast, it’s all about pushing past your comfort zone so that you can grow so that you can evolve. And so that you can become the most badass version of yourself yet. Cool.
Okay, but first, if you’re listening to this podcast right now, it means that your health and your fitness, those things are important to you. You want to feel better, you want to get leaner run faster. And I’m here to tell you that all of that is possible for you. It really is. And I can help you get there.
You know, I listen to lots of podcasts, I listen to lots of books, and I know a lot of stuff about a lot of stuff. But when it comes to applying all the stuff that I know, nothing has really helped me more than having a coach there for me, somebody that could guide me and mentor me and show me the way, like every step of the way I had somebody there with me.
I’ve had several amazing coaches in my life, I had a business coach, I had a strength coach, I had a nutrition coach, and those areas of my life have never been better. So the coaches that I’ve had have helped me become the person that I am today.
They inspired me so much that they kind of this is why I became a coach myself, because I saw what they were doing and I was like I want to do that too. I want to have that kind of impact on people as well. So if you’re listening to the podcast, right now, keep listening, keep learning, like that stuff is all good.
But when you’re ready to get down to business, when you’re ready to do the work, consider working with a coach and it doesn’t even have to be me. It’s okay if it’s somebody else, but find someone that can show you the way that can help you apply all of this knowledge that you’re taking in, okay, somebody that can hold you accountable, and somebody that can help you stay on track.
The only way you make progress with anything like this is to take consistent aligned action. And the best way to stay consistent with all this is to have somebody there holding you accountable and helping you stay on track. Cool.
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But I want to help you to become the most badass version of yourself. You get yourself a coach, okay? It’s it’s a game-changer. I promise you Okay, runningleanoaching.com and click on Work With Me.
Okay, let’s talk about your comfort zone. What is your comfort zone? Well, your comfort zone is everything that you already have. Because when it comes to what is comfortable for you, it’s always going to be the things that you’ve already done. Those things are comfortable for you.
It’s everything that you continually do. It’s all of your current habits. It’s all your current behaviors. It’s how you think it’s how you feel, it’s all your beliefs. It’s it’s everything that is that is within your like zone of comfort. You know, that’s what your comfort zone is, you built this comfort zone.
You build your comfort zone around your psyche, like your, your model of the world, helps to shape your comfort zone and your psyche that’s just a fancy word that means your spirit your soul yourself. Like it’s the totality of your mind, your conscious mind, your unconscious mind, it’s everything that influences your thoughts, your behavior, it’s your personality, all of that is what your psyche is essentially, okay?
And you have this very unique psyche. And all of that is what feels comfortable to you. Okay, so if there is something that you want for yourself that you don’t already have, you’re going to have to leave your comfort zone in order to get it.
Because remember, everything that you already have is in your comfort zone. If you don’t have it, that means it’s outside your comfort zone, everything you want, but don’t already have lies outside your comfort zone.
Which means that in order to get that thing, you’re going to have to get uncomfortable. And I talk to people about this all the time, and they say, I get it, Patrick, I’m so willing to get uncomfortable. You know, I say you’re gonna have to embrace the suck, and people are like, I’m ready to embrace the suck. Patrick, I can do that, you know.
And this could be with your diet, let’s say you’re you want to change your diet, you want to stop eating sugar, let’s say you want to stop drinking alcohol, because you’re trying to improve your health, you were trying to prove your fitness trying to lose some weight. sugar and alcohol are our throttles, if you’re trying to lose weight, those things are going to keep you stuck, right, they’re going to throttle your progress.
So my suggestion, my, my gentle suggestion would be if you want to lose weight, stop eating sugar, and stop drinking alcohol. Okay? Those two things, though, tend to feel really good, they’re really comfortable. It’s really comfortable to eat sugar, it’s really it feels really good to drink alcohol, you know.
So when I say oh, you’re gonna have to get uncomfortable, you’re gonna have to stop doing those things. People are like, I got it, I can do that. I’m really ready to embrace the suck, I’m ready to get uncomfortable. Like, okay, cool.
But then when you know, the rubber meets the road, when you actually do stop drinking or stop eating sugar. And you’re freaking out a little bit because people around you are drinking or people around, you’re eating sugar, or you walk into the break room and there’s doughnuts, or you walk into the kitchen, and your wife or husband or kids or someone has just made a bunch of chocolate chip cookies.
And the whole house smells amazing, like chocolate chip cookies right out of the oven. They’re all gooey, that chocolate chips are melty, oh my gosh, who wouldn’t want to eat that up? That’s discomfort. That’s when you’re like, I don’t think I can do this. This is too hard.
So when I talk about getting out of your comfort zone, it’s being in that moment you’re standing in the kitchen, you can smell the chocolate chip cookies, you can see them you see the chocolate just melty as they break apart, and you’re not eating them. That’s what I mean by discomfort. That does not feel good.
That’s you getting out of your comfort zone, right? Because you’re not eating those things. But they’re sitting there. And that’s the feeling I’m talking about. So people will say this when they’re having a call with me. And we’re just you know, it’s a Monday morning and we’re, you know, just having this one-on-one conversation. And they’re like, all fired up.
But as soon as those cookies come out of the oven, like all bets are off, you know. So if you want to lose the weight, you got to maybe take a break from eating those cookies for a while. And that’s what I mean by getting out of your comfort zone. All right.
So let me tell you a little bit of a story. So I had this dog. And we had this dog at our house. And this dog was kind of crazy. Her name was Daisy, she was a yellow lab. Cutest dog in the world so smart, like so ridiculously smart. And we had gotten one of those electric fences, you know, what do you call like an invisible fence, you know, it’s wires buried underground, she had the collar on, and we would train her so that she would go outside and not cross the line where the where the wires were under the ground.
So you put up flags and you train the dog that once they get near the flags, they have to back off because they get that little buzz in their neck or whatever and then it shocks them if they get too close. Well, this dog was a little bit crazy. And she figured out that she could get up against that line and start to feel that buzz or that shock and then she would just bolt through the line she would bolt through the line of the wire and get shocked and she was okay with that.
Most dogs would not do that. But she was I don’t know brave, courageous, crazy. I don’t know what you want to call it but she saw that there was a whole wide world out there. And the only way that she was going to get to that wide world out there was to experience the discomfort of, you know, going through that fence. Okay.
So this is a pretty good analogy, because that fence, that invisible fence is like our comfort zone, you know, and when we get close to it, we feel the pain. So discomfort is just our brain telling us that, you know, there’s something uncomfortable out there that we want for ourselves. And that discomfort that we feel means that in order to get that thing, we have to cross a threshold, you know, we have to cross this invisible line, from comfort to discomfort.
And our brain sees that as painful. Our brain’s job is to keep us safe to avoid pain, and seek pleasure to avoid discomfort and seek comfort, to avoid the unfamiliar and seek the familiar. So when we want something like I want to lose 40 pounds, or I want to run an ultra marathon, or I want to have a different relationship with alcohol, all those things are outside our comfort zone, the cost of achieving those things is discomfort.
And so it’s like that dog getting close to the fence and just sitting there and dealing with that buzzing and that shocking that’s going on and just bolting through it anyway. Because they know that dog knew that on the other side of that she could run that whole neighborhood.
And she did and our neighbors would always be bringing her back like, hey, your dog got out again. And I’m like, I don’t get it. You know, this is an invisible fence, she’s getting shocked here. She didn’t care. She was crazy. I loved her, but she was a handful I’m going to tell you.
So you see that that’s a good analogy, because it kind of puts your comfort zone into the 3D world here, you know, so you can actually kind of visualize what that looks like for you. So you stop drinking, or you stop eating sugar, or maybe you got to really increase your mileage to you know, go go after that ultra-marathon or something, and the discomfort is going to show up, the resistance to that thing is going to show up.
And you’ve got to just embrace it and go through that. That’s how you achieve those things. Like the cost of achieving those things is discomfort, right? So embracing the suck. That just means leaning into that discomfort standing there, at the edge of that invisible fence, feeling the shocks and then going after that thing anyway.
This is the real work that we do together, you know, with my clients, this is the real work that we do. You know, it’s it’s less about, oh, here’s the foods you should eat. And here’s the kind of workouts you should do. It’s more about how do I deal with the discomfort and the challenges of not doing the things that are comfortable for me? Okay.
So you know, in, like I said, this can relate to your running, this can relate to getting stronger to changing your body composition, whatever it can relate to your relationships, it can really to your work, whatever that thing is that you want for yourself.
Whatever area of life we’re talking about here that you don’t already have, the cost of getting that thing is going to be discomfort. And listen, there’s nothing inherently wrong with having a comfort zone like this is your safe place. This is something you’ve created for yourself. It’s everything that you know, it’s everything that you’ve done. It’s everything that you have accomplished already. And this is a good place to be.
But you know what? Growth doesn’t happen in your comfort zone. Change doesn’t happen in your comfort zone. The only way you can grow and evolve and become more is to get out of your comfort zone.
Here’s an example from my life lately. My running workouts lately have been pretty amazing. And the reason is because I have been consistently pushing myself out of my comfort zone. So last year, I was doing a lot of very slow running because I was preparing for a 12 hour running event. And I did a whole podcast and kind of talked about that you can look that one up.
But this year, I am focusing on a running a faster half marathon. And this is going to be in like three weeks or so it’s going to be early. The Flying Pig Half and I’m actually running the 5k and the 10k the day before the half just because I like to torture myself.
I like running nine miles the day before a half marathon, who doesn’t do that? But my point is that my running has been amazing lately because I have been regularly pushing myself to run faster. I’ve been doing tons of speed work, tempo runs. And my running is felt better than ever.
And the last few workouts I’ve done have been so good. Tuesday, I did three one-mile repeats. So this is, you know, this was yesterday, this was my, what do you call it, like my speed day, my speed work day. And I chose to do one-mile repeats, which is something I don’t do too often, because it’s hard and uncomfortable.
But I gotta tell you, I felt so amazing doing those. And I wasn’t running super fast, I think 8:38-40s something like that per mile. But, you know, felt amazing. On this past Saturday, I did a 12 mile run, and ran with some faster people to kind of pull me along.
And I ended up having a really amazing 12 miles it was kind of like I was my goal was to run six miles fast, and then kind of jog it back. But I ended up running with some other faster people on the way back. So both out and back, were fast.
So I did a 12-mile tempo run instead of a 6-mile tempo run that day. But I was feeling so good. I wanted to see what I was capable of. And I wanted to push myself a little bit. So the reason I’m talking about this is because in order to get faster, in order to improve my fitness and my running, I’ve had to really push myself and get out of my comfort zone.
The work that I’ve been doing lately has been uncomfortable. Running 12 miles at like a tempo pace is not comfortable. Doing three one-mile repeats in a row that is now uncomfortable. But you know what, my fitness is improving, my running is feeling better than ever. And I’m hoping that I have a really good half marathon. That’s the goal anyway. Okay.
So that’s the kind of work that we have to do in order to get out of our comfort zone and achieve those things that we want for ourselves, we have to be willing to be uncomfortable, that’s the price we pay to improve, right?
So people are super keen to this idea. You know, but once they get into it, everything in your being your whole psyche is telling you go back to safety. You know, whether you’re trying to run faster, quit sugar, quit alcohol, whatever it is, you’re gonna get to this place where it’s going to feel uncomfortable, and you’re going to want to run back to the safety of your comfort zone.
And I hear people talk about this all the time, when they’re like, oh, you know, I was doing really great with my food plan. And then this thing happened at work. And I got really stressed and I just you know, there were doughnuts in the break room. So I just ate the doughnuts. You know, that’s you running back to the safety of your comfort zone when you do that.
My suggestion for you is to notice when your psyche is telling you to run back to the safety of your comfort zone, when the donut sounds good to you. And it sounds like a good idea, even though you don’t eat that stuff anymore.
If that sounds like a good idea, that’s your comfort zone trying to pull you back. And you have to fight against that. You have to just say no, I’m not doing that. I’m gonna stay uncomfortable here. In this moment, I’m going to stay uncomfortable. Because everything when we get out of our comfort zone, everything out there that’s out of our comfort zone feels painful to your brain, your brain is trying to avoid pain.
So why the heck would you want to do something that to your brain seems painful? When you do that your brain is going to resist that your program is going to resist that we avoid pain, Patrick, remember, you know, and so that’s your brain telling you like go back to the safety and comfort of your comfort zone get get away from this pain, okay?
But you have to like fight against that you just have to ignore it and you have to move on. Just like my dog Daisy, who just ignored the stupid shock that she got. Every time she ran through that fence. She didn’t care because what was on the other side of that was amazing. She would run through the whole neighborhood check out all the other dogs, go wander up to people’s porches, run in the street. Like she was nuts. And she loved it.
She was living her best life and all it required was, you know, some temporary discomfort and like not eating the chocolate chip cookies in the kitchen is the same thing. It’s like just can you deal with a little temporary discomfort. It’s not gonna last that long.
It might be 10 minutes, it might be 15 minutes, give yourself 15 minutes just say okay, you know what? Those cookies look amazing, but I’m just going to wait 15 minutes and if in 15 minutes, you still want the cookies you can reevaluate at that point. Okay, chances are, that’s going to kind of go away.
So the discomfort, it’s not like, it’s days and weeks of this stuff, a lot of times, it’s just a few minutes here and there. Or if you’re running a, you know, an ultra marathon or something like that there may be several hours of discomfort that you have to endure, to get to that goal.
And it could be, you know, a lot of a lot of uncomfortable runs, you know, uncomfortable training regimen, you know, whatever, whatever it is, it’s, it’s not a forever thing, right? But it is one of those things that, I want to encourage you to regularly step out of your comfort zone, because when you do this stuff regularly, it gets easier, your comfort zone gets bigger, the more you do it.
So things don’t end just because you got out of your comfort zone, once you get out of your comfort zone, you do something you accomplish something you never have before, guess what your comfort zone just got a little bigger. Oh, that’s kind of goal, right?
But your goal as a human being is to continue to grow, to continue to evolve to continue to become more, which means you have to regularly expand your comfort zone, you have to regularly do things that are uncomfortable, so that your comfort zone can continue to expand with your growth with your personal growth. So does your comfort zone grow.
So you got to be willing to bet against your comfort zone every day, all the time, like forever. This is just something you have to do. If this sounds terrible to you, it’s because it is it’s kind of it’s uncomfortable to do this. I’m not saying it’s comfortable. I’m not saying it’s easy. It’s not. But this is the work that we do.
You don’t grow, evolve and become more and just like say, Well, I did that once and now I’m done. You don’t do that once and then go sit on the couch for the rest of your life. No, that’s not how we approach life. There’s no finish line. It’s not a destination we’re trying to get to it’s a way of living, we regularly leave our comfort zone to become more. And then we continue doing that.
Honestly, I wouldn’t want to live my life any other way. So all these hard things that you want to do in your life, and they’re hard, I get it. But I want you to approach these things with courage and with consistency. Consistently show up for yourself, have the courage to keep going even when things are hard, have the courage to feel uncomfortable. Sometimes things are hard, they take a long time. They don’t work, right? It doesn’t matter.
We don’t stop, we don’t quit. We don’t give up. We keep moving forward, we keep butting up against the edge of our comfort zone and keep making that bigger, keep expanding that comfort zone. That should be your goal. So your work becomes pushing yourself to the edge of that comfort zone daily. feeling that pain, right?
Deal with the discomfort and then move through it. And I hear people say this all the time, like oh, it’s such a struggle. I’m struggling with sugar. I’m struggling with alcohol. I’m struggling with my workouts, you’re not struggling. You’re just not willing to be uncomfortable for long enough.
Chances are your only struggle is your brain is telling you don’t do this. Go back to the safety of your comfort zone. So, you know they say the struggle is real. The struggle is actually not real. It’s just a story. You keep telling yourself the struggle is in your mind. Okay, it’s not easy doing this stuff. And it is uncomfortable. That’s the nature of it. But it’s not a struggle. Okay. That’s all I got for you today. Love you all, keep on Running Lean. And I will talk to you soon.
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My name is Patrick McGilvray, and I’m an experienced marathoner, ultra runner, Sports Nutritionist, Master Life Coach, and weight loss coach for runners. I’ve dedicated my life to helping runners just like you properly fuel your body and your mind. So you can get leaner, get stronger, run faster, and run longer than you ever thought possible. This is Running Lean.
Hey there, and welcome to episode 218 of Running Lean. My name is Patrick McGilvray, The Weight Loss Coach for Runners today, you have to change how you think. So if you’re somebody who wants to lose weight and keep it off, you probably already know that you have to change your diet, right?
This is obvious, we all know this. But that’s where most people stop, they change their diet, they get some results. But it rarely lasts. Because they’ve only changed the behavior, not the thinking that’s driving the behavior. They keep slipping back into old eating patterns because they haven’t changed the thoughts that create those patterns in the first place.
So if you think you can change your diet, but not your thinking, you’re always going to struggle. So today on the podcast, if you want to change behavior and make it last, then you have to change how you think.
But first, I know I talk a lot about nutrition, weight loss, running strength training, all that stuff here on the podcast. And if you’re new to the podcast, welcome. And also this all might seem a little overwhelming to you. And you might just want to know where to get started with all this stuff.
If that sounds like you, awesome, I’ve got you covered, I created a free training, it’s about an hour long, it’s a video that you can watch, you can check it out anytime it’s called Five Simple Steps To Becoming A Leaner Stronger Runner, you’re gonna learn all the basics, nutrition, strength, endurance mindset, all geared towards you, the runner who’s interested in becoming fitter, stronger, faster, and the most badass version of yourself yet.
If this sounds like you, check out this free training, just go to runningleancoaching.com and click on free training. I know it’s pretty obvious, right? And you can get started on your weight loss journey today. Cool. Awesome.
Okay, let’s get into this topic today, you have to change how you think. So one of the things that prompted me to talk about this today is that I talk to people every single day. And they just want some of these people just want me to talk to tell them like what to do, like, just tell me what to do. You know, give me a plan and I’ll follow the plan.
They just want to know what’s, the when’s, the how’s, like what should I eat? When should I lift weights? How often should I run? Just tell me what to do and I’ll do it. And I jokingly say, half-jokingly I say, yeah, knowing what to do is easy. If it were that easy, though, all I would do is write a book and hand it over to you right?
But knowing what to do is only a small part of the equation. All right? How often have you known what to do and you still haven’t done it anyway, like, you probably know that you shouldn’t be eating some things like Dunkin Donuts, right? But you do it anyway.
And you’re not doing it and you’re not like doing the things that you want to be doing consistently. So that’s where, you know, we see this behavior that we’re engaging in, we want to change the behavior, but we stop there, we just stop it like, well, I just need to stop doing that I need to do things differently. I need to take different actions, okay?
The problem with this is that you’re not changing the thing that is actually driving the behavior that’s actually creating the thoughts, the feelings that are actually driving the behavior. Okay, you can’t just change a behavior, you have to change the thinking behind the behavior, okay?
But when it comes to, you know, things like, okay, I shouldn’t be eating Dunkin Donuts every day. I get that. But they find themselves they just keep eating the Dunkin Donuts every day. And they’re like, how come I can’t do that? Because they haven’t changed the thinking that’s driving the behavior.
So if you’re somebody who struggles with sticking to a plan, like sticking to a food plan, you know, you might have experienced this in the past, and lots of people I’ve talked to have experienced this where they’re like, yeah, I did that.
For a while I was able to change the behavior, I started to eat real food, and I started to do pretty well with that. But they never did like the deeper work of changing the thinking that drives the behavior. And so they just slip back into those old patterns that keep slipping back into those old eating patterns.
You know, slipping back into, you know, binging on stuff and in, you know, eating the junk food, and they can’t understand why because they know what to do. But they’ve never done the deeper work. The deeper work is changing. The thinking changes the doing, the thinking that actually drives the behavior.
Okay, so I’ve said this a couple of times now, your thinking drives your behavior, how does all this work? So, you know, here’s, here’s what, what I want to talk about next, this is how your thinking actually drives your actions. Okay?
So when we want to change something complicated, like eating patterns, this can be kind of challenging, okay? And for most people, they just look at the action itself, I’m either eating broccoli, or I’m eating potato chips, I’m eating, you know, the chicken that I put out, or a meeting the Dunkin Donuts, you know.
And when it’s when you think about the action like that, it is, it is very surface level, when you just try to change the action, you are going to get minuscule results, I’m just telling you right now, if that’s what you’ve been working on, then you are going to get very short term results, and you’re never going to make lasting change.
What you want to do is get down to the thinking this is the deeper work, you get down to the thinking that’s driving the behavior because this is where you can actually start making real lasting change.
So most people believe that whatever they’re doing is some sort of automatic behavior. Like they’re some sort of a robot, they have no control over their actions, you know, the Dunkin Donuts just sitting there and I eat them. I just find myself eating them, I find myself eating them. Like I am an automaton, I see doughnuts and I eat them.
This is not really going on. This is really not what’s happening. You are not a robot, you are a human being you have free will, you have agency, you have the power to make decisions and you are making decisions, you are not out of control. You can choose something different in that circumstance.
But in that circumstance, you’re making a choice, you’re choosing this over that you’re choosing, typically, you’re choosing what feels good right now, you’re choosing immediate gratification, you’re choosing immediate pleasure over your long-term goals, over long-lasting gratification and pleasure, a fit body, a long and healthy life and all the good stuff that you actually want for yourself.
Most people think behavior works like this, they see the Dunkin Donuts saying eat them, period, right? Here’s how your thinking actually drives your behavior, though. So you see the Dunkin Donuts sitting there. And then you have a thought about the Dunkin Donuts.
So it’s not the donuts themselves that are driving the behavior, but it’s your thoughts. So you have a thought about the donuts, oh, man, those look so good. You know what, I’ve been good all week, I just ran 10 miles, I deserve a little treat. You know, I’ve been pretty consistent with all this, it’s not gonna hurt that much. It’s going to feel really good to eat, though.
So you have all these thoughts that go through your mind. You know, a lot of times you don’t even know you’re having those thoughts. It just goes, it happens really fast. Really, it’s very, very quick. It’s just in an instant, where you have these thoughts, but you do have these thoughts.
And those thoughts are very powerful. Because those thoughts create a feeling inside of you. Immediately, they create a in this case, they create something like desire. And the feeling could be anything really it could be a feeling like you can have a thought that creates a feeling of stress or anxiety or anger.
But in the case of you know, looking at some Dunkin Donuts and you just ran 10 miles, it could just be an intense desire, which is just a feeling it’s an emotion, a desire. You have this intense desire that wells up inside you that desire to eat a Dunkin donut.
What is actually driving the action of eating the doughnut? If the desire wasn’t there, you wouldn’t eat the doughnut. So the desire to eat the donut is not created by the donut in the box. That’s not creating the desire. The desire is created by your thoughts about the donut sitting in the box.
Oh, this is gonna taste so good. This sugar is gonna make me feel really good because it does that sugar lights up those pleasure centers in your brain. Oh, I’m gonna get a nice sugar rush for the next 20 minutes or so.
All these thoughts that you have create that desire and they really ramp up that desire. It’s like turning up the volume on that desire. And the reason we know this is true is because some people they just don’t have that. They don’t like Dunkin Donuts and they don’t have it. The desire to eat the doughnuts, the doughnuts are not causing the desire because some people can see them sitting there and just be like, not so great. I don’t really like those things, you know, they have no thoughts about, oh my God, these are gonna be so amazing.
They have no thoughts about oh, I just deserve this, you know, just ran 10 miles, they don’t have any of those thoughts. And so they have no desire to eat the doughnut, and so they don’t eat the doughnut.
So not eating the doughnut is not hard for those people because their thinking is different. They are not thinking all these thoughts about how amazing this is going to feel. And so the desire is not there to eat the doughnut, and so they don’t eat the doughnut.
So this is what is called a thought-feeling-action pattern. Your thoughts create feelings and your feelings drive your behavior. And I just call this for simplicity, a thought pattern, right? Thought patterns are things that we have learned over the years and years and years of our lives. And we have thought patterns about all kinds of stuff in our life. Some are good, some are not so good. Right? You’ve been practicing certain thought patterns for your whole life, decades.
Like, Dunkin Donuts are amazing. To be honest with you. I don’t know that I’ve ever had a Dunkin donut, just a little sidebar here. I know people love their coffee, they talk about how good the coffee is. I just can’t imagine that it would be that good.
Because I’m sort of a coffee snob. I love really good, you know, single-origin coffees that I grind the beans myself, and I just don’t think that it would be that good. But in no way I don’t know, maybe I’m missing out on something. But I don’t have the desire to eat the Dunkin Donuts. I’m just using this as an example.
So you’ve had these, you’ve been practicing these types of thought patterns for decades. Like if you’ve always loved Dunkin Donuts, and you’ve probably thought, oh my God, these are just so amazing all the time. So you’ve created a thought pattern. And you’ve done this so many times, it just creates a habit. The habit is when you see the donuts, you eat them.
And you think it’s an automatic thing. But it really isn’t. It’s a thought-feeling-action pattern that you’ve been practicing over and over and over and over again. This is the same as practicing any other behavior. Behavior that’s become a habit for you, like running.
So when you first started running, you have all these thoughts about running, like, running as hard. I don’t feel like running today. I’m not getting any faster. Running is really hard. Why is running so hard? I hate running. It’s really hard. It’s stupid. Those are my thoughts about running when I first started doing it, and it took me so long before I got better, you know, running, running takes a long, it takes a long time to get better at, right?
And these thoughts that I was having would keep me in bed, most mornings, you know, because they would, when I started thinking these feelings about running being so hard, and I’m not getting better. And I you know, I’m not getting faster, and running is stupid. It’s not working for me.
All those thoughts that I had about running, were causing feelings of demotivation inside me, a lack of enthusiasm. I’m not good enough, feelings of frustration and anger, like those feelings of demotivation, frustration, anger, and lack of enthusiasm, these feelings will drive a certain type of behavior, which is to stay in bed and don’t go run. Because running is stupid. Okay?
That is a thought-feeling-action pattern at play right there. So you don’t feel like running and you don’t run. But over time, over time, you do squeak out a few good runs here and there. And you do eventually get a little bit faster. And running becomes a little bit easier. And you kind of surprise yourself that oh I actually ran like five miles and it actually felt okay.
Like you start to see that this might actually be working, you start to enjoy it. You start to feel good after you run, you start to look forward to it. And so then you have all these new thoughts about running that start to change the way you feel about running to the point where now you never miss a run no matter what even if it’s really crappy outside.
Even if it’s cold and snowy and rainy. Even if you’re sick, you’ve got the flu, even if you’re on vacation, you’re gonna go out there and run because it feels so good for you. So you’ve created for yourself without even knowing it a whole different set of thought patterns around running.
And so the behavior, you think, you know, the behavior just changes by itself. No, you have changed that behavior over time. I hope this is an example that you can relate to. Because this is a really good example of the amazing power of your thought patterns.
Running can be a hard thing, but you can get through it. And you can get over that and you can become a person who loves to run. The very same thing can happen with any other thought patterns in your life. Running just didn’t naturally come easily to you and be handed to you all of a sudden, you know, running just got easier. No, you had to like, work through it.
And you had to learn thought patterns, it took a while you had to practice it for a long time before it became something that was easier, and it was a habit. So thought patterns can be learned thought patterns can be unlearned, too, right?
If you want to train yourself to hate running, just go back to all the crappy thinking about running, how hard it is how you don’t like it, how you’re not getting any faster, why so hard. All that stuff, just keep thinking those kinds of thoughts, and it’ll be super demotivating. And you’ll not feel like running ever again. Okay?
If you have a thought pattern, like mindlessly eating the Dunkin Donuts every time you see them, even though you know it’s not what you want, it’s not good for you, it’s not going to help you lose weight, it’s not healthy, it’s not in alignment with your long term goals, then you can unlearn that thought pattern, okay?
And it starts with changing the way you think you have to change the thoughts that are creating those feelings of desire within you. So how do you change your thinking? So changing your thinking is not as easy as it sounds, you just can’t be like, well, I’m just going to think differently.
Especially if you’ve been practicing the same thought patterns your whole life, it takes time. And it takes some effort, it takes a little bit of work. And when I say work, that’s where most people like tune out. They’re like, oh, please, I don’t want to do any work.
But listen, if you want to change, you have to do some work, right? And I promise you that if you’re willing to work on this particular area, when you’re starting to talk about changing thought patterns, this can be an absolute game changer for you. And it applies to any thought patterns in your life, whether it’s Dunkin Donuts, running, whatever it is that you want for yourself, you can change this.
And I’ve got a three step little process here that I’m going to go through with you that I think is really powerful. And it’s the three R’s. And the three R’s are to recognize, record, and reframe.
So the first R, if we’re talking about changing thought patterns here, the first R, the very first step is to recognize you got to recognize that something is going on here. You know, you have to see that you’re engaging in a behavior or a thought pattern that you want to change.
You have to recognize that what you’re doing may not be in alignment with your long-term goals. So this is self-awareness, understanding that you’re not a robot, this is not automatic behavior. You’re just practicing an old thought pattern. So you have to recognize that something is going on here.
That is the critical first step. And you have to be honest with yourself that oh, yeah, I’m doing something that you know, I am eating the Dunkin Donuts mindlessly what’s happening here, like what’s going on? So recognize that something is happening here. Okay, step number one.
Step number two, the second R is to record, record the thought pattern in as much detail as possible. So as soon as you can, once you recognize what’s happening, or that there’s something happening here, stop and record some thoughts and feelings about the behavior.
Ask yourself some questions like, what just happened there? Like why did I do that? What was the thought that I had right before I did that? What was the feeling that I had right before I did that?
This doesn’t have to be complicated, you can just grab a notebook and write it down, use a pen and a piece of paper, use your journal, write it on a note on your phone, you can even record a voice memo and just record it into your phone. I like doing that because sometimes I can’t write as fast as my brain is, you know, can think and I can talk so I just talk it’s a lot easier for me.
But the more you record, the more you can start to see that yeah, these are the types of thought patterns that I’m engaging in. These are the types of thoughts I’m thinking these are the types of feelings that are being created within me that are actually driving the behavior.
And then the next step is to and the third R is to reframe. Reframing means you change the thought to create different feelings, which drive a different behavior. This simply means you need to start to choose different thoughts in those moments, and this is a practice this is not something you’re going to do you know, you, you know, and then you’re going to do one time, you’re gonna be like, oh, I got it. No, it takes time.
Reframing is a powerful tool. It’s used in a lot of psychological practices like CBT, cognitive behavioral therapy. And they have a similar like three steps sort of process that is similar to this. But I think this one applies to us very profoundly. Okay.
So you have a thought, like, you know, I’ve been good all week, I deserve this donut, I just ran 10 miles, it’s not that big a deal. All those kinds of thoughts, right? Those thoughts are creating a desire inside you. And then you just use that desire to drive you to eat the doughnut.
But a reframing, reframing thought might be something like, oh, that donut looks really good. But my health is more important to me than how good that donut might taste in the moment. My weight loss goal is bigger than the tiny amount of pleasure that this stupid little donut is going to give me. Or I’m not the kind of person that eats that crap anymore.
Right, these thoughts, these reframed thoughts, start to create feelings of motivation, you start to feel more confident, you have a different desire not to eat the doughnut, but to stay consistent and reach those health and fitness goals that are so important to you.
And so in that moment, the desire to stay committed to your goals is much more powerful than the stupid donut sitting there. And so you make the choice tonight the donut. That’s a reframe.
Okay, so the whole thing, this whole process, recognize, record, reframe, only takes a couple of minutes to do, it only takes a few minutes, but you want to practice this, you want to practice this every day.
Recognize there’s a thought pattern you want to change. Record your thoughts and feelings about it. Reframe those thoughts and feelings to produce a better outcome next time.
It’s a very simple process. Simple, but not easy. This is the work that we have to do. This is the work that most people don’t want to do or not willing to do. Most people would rather stay stuck and just blame everything around them for why they’re stuck.
Like, oh, if those donuts weren’t sitting there, I’d be fine. Actually, no, because the donuts are not the problem. It’s your thoughts about the donuts. That’s the real problem. Okay. So get out there, start seeing all the thought patterns in your life, and start recognizing that these things are happening and that you are creating them.
Alright, so there’s some good thought patterns that are happening in your life and there’s some that are not so good, but recognize all of them and start to see them for what they really are, okay?
There’s going to be some that you want to continue doing. There are going to be some thought patterns that you want to change. And that’s when we put the three R’s into practice. Recognize, record, and reframe. Cool. Okay, that’s all I got for you today. I love you all. Keep on Running Lean, and I will talk to you soon.
